It was supposed to be a simple unharmful game, afterall life is easy, strictly having sex with a friend no emotions involved, no complications like regular relationships, no need for gifts and valentine’s right? But why do I want to know where he is, who she’s with, why hasn’t he called me? Why hasn’t she messaged me? Is he having sex with someone? Is she going out with another guy? As simple as you think FWB is supposed to be, you tend to forget you are human with emotions, you sometimes develop feelings for the first person that shows you a little bit of the love you “think” you deserve. You nurture such feelings without even knowing and suddenly you find yourself asking questions like “have you eaten? Did you go to work?” All this while trying to maintain a conversation and hoping your other partner feels the same, maybe just maybe he/she does.
Sweetheart, a FWB relationship is basically saying to your face that you are good enough for sex but not good enough to invest emotions into. Now ask yourself, is that friend really a friend or you are just a booty call, can you confide in that friend? Are they there when you need a shoulder to cry on or a face to vent to? How much does that friend really know about you? Does he/she introduce you to business opportunities? Does he/she put you in their prayers?
You are more than just a casual sex, more than a booty call, more than a physical pleasure. You deserve much more love than you think you do, you deserve more than the crumbs you settle for, you are made to love and be loved unconditionally because you were created from Love. Never settle!
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I agree with you girlllll……
Friends with benefits is just a waste of time and juice🤣.
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I’m basically laughing right now 😂
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As exciting as FWB seems… it’s a waste of effort😪… I had one in a certain year of my life… I won’t even call it FWB because omo😂 I had fallen for the human…I haunted that dude like I was his babe😂… in conclusion.. FWB is never healthy
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It’s never healthy and women are at more disadvantage in such relationships
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When you have your priorities straight you don’t fall for this type of traps that only waste your time and add no value to you.
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Exactly, priorities and self respect
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Friends with benefits really doesn’t exist
Has a girl, I think you should just say you having sex for money!!!!
That’s shit doesn’t work
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Sometimes it’s not even about the money, some people just crave affection
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Wow!!!! So proud of you babes… Honestly FWB is a total waste of time
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And emotions. Thank you dear
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Who even brought about this FWB relationships tho. It’s more like prostitution but u have just one client
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Aleey 😅, who brought the idea is still a mystery but fwb goes way back
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